Wednesday, 1 February 2023

LET ME DRESS AS I PLEASE, ITS 2023!

Been a while family, hope we've been good and the new year is going terrific, amen.

It’s a new era where there is a lot of freedom rather than restrictions especially personal freedoms. Freedom to choose to identify as a male or female, to have relations(sexual) with a male while also being a male or a female or have it both ways or have it with two or more people. The freedom on that is limitless. There are strong groups or communities that fight for and protect those who need it. To an extent that freedom becomes a war when I, a muslim hijabi decide to cover the way my Rabb requires.

You agree that as a lady in her thirties if I decide I don’t want to identify as a lady I’m free but if as the same lady I choose to dress to cover up, shame on me? It is outright in sane.

I find it hypocritical for the same people advocating for that much freedom to be fighting how you choose to dress. Does that mean there should be freedom but it can be regulated or restricted when it concerns certain things? If I dress in my transparent see through veil I blend in perfectly, it is expensive and luxurious and a norm. But once I dress in a thicker veil or hijab it’s a problem. I am not advocating for our conventional hijab that arewa men believe is hijab. That did not appear in the Qur’an. There are some characteristics that make up the hijab. For example it should not be transparent, or attract attention or cover some parts of the body and leave some parts out.

I beg you this is 2023 please allow me to wear all the abaya, hijab, niqab type cover I feel like. That’s my personal choice give me the freedom to choose, please.

pro tip: cover up, e get why, death is nearer than you think Habibty. malaikun nan jibga sukeyi by Allah

Much love, Mariya.

Please share, might be a sadaqah jariya for me and for you. Don't forget to comment. will love to hear(read) your thoughts.


 


50 comments:

  1. MashaAllah
    May Allah guide and protect us

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  2. A good piece ❤️

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  3. May Allah be our guide always, Amin.

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  4. Masha Allah ❤️

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  5. Alhamdulillah, thank you for saying it as it is

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  6. Nice piece,kudos.

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  7. Maa shaa Allah,thanks

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  8. Ma Sha Allah. May Allah bless you and show others to stand on the right path. Amin

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  9. May Allah guide us to the right path.

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  10. Jazakillahu khairan dear

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  11. Jazakillahu bil jannah. This is exactly what’s oppressing our youth today. May Allah make it easy for us all, Ameen.

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    1. Very true. Sometimes you try to amend your dressing even your friends make fun of you, its not easy really. Amen ya Rabbi.

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  12. Jazakhillahu khairan sister♥️

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  13. Jazakallahu khair

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  14. Alhamdulillah Masha Allah

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  15. We sure d live in a hypocritical word, glad you’re shedding light on this issue.💜

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    1. May He ease our affairs dai. Thank you sweetie.

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  16. Masha Allah. Well said

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  17. Alhamdulillah, a good job , on the topic, it's all shades of hypocritical the way the west is addressing the hijab, like the way u said you are free to be a boy-girl , girl-boy, to cut the list lgbtq is their initials, and so annoying how they show it proudly in our faces for those of us that love movies , u might have notices they have infilterated them any ways that's not my point today probably a talk for another day, the point is, the way they proudly, confidently, show their selves, we as Muslims with the backing of the divine creator Allah that ordained us to wear this hijab for our own good, find it difficult to, worst of it all is that our own Muslim brothers and sisters sometimes make it difficult as well, making comments like "ga saliha" su
    "ustaziya" just because of they way they have decided to obey their lord, and we all know what happens to those who can't stand the pressure. So please as Muslims or even non-Muslims, allow whoever wants to cover to do so, don't judge them, encourage them, especially the younger ones, commend them when they wear the hijab or veil properly, parents let's stop buying skimpy clothes for our little girls and leaving their hair opened saying "waye wa ne " or she is just a child, trust me it would be hard to correct when they grow up. May Allah ease our affairs and help us to serve him in the best of ways. Love 💕 Taheerah

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    1. Well put thank you my darling. LGBTQ kam I didn't want to mention names but it's clear enough and some of our close associates. True on the children covering too thank you for sharing. Jazakallahu khairan ❤️❤️

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  18. Jaxakillahu bi khair sister,may Allah reward u abundantly

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  19. Amen ya Rabbi. Thank you jazakallahu khairan.

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  20. you've said it as it is.May Allah guide us to the right path.Thank you!

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  21. Amen jazakallahu khairan. Thanks for the input.

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  22. Jazakillahu khairan May Allah make the right path easy for us to choose and follow

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    1. Amen ya Rahman. You've said it all. Jazakallah khairan.

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  23. MashaAlla, may Allah see us through this era of over freedom❤️
    Well written📌

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    1. Ai fa over freedom, funny. Thanks jazakallah khairan.

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