My immediate elder sister was pregnant with twins when Covid
hit. Towards the last few months she had severe ulcer attacks and frequent
false labor pains. She was precisely eight months at the time.
She got admitted to the government hospital she goes to for
antenatal. While there, the doctors explained that she needed surgery to remove
the babies as soon as is possible. Everything was set for the Caesarean
Section. She was operated upon and it was a success. My over joyed mother called
me at the earliest hour in the morning to inform me of the good news. Everyone
was taken over with excitement of the birth of twin boys. It was all chocolate
and candy for a few hours, well at least from where we stood.
Apparently she kept complaining of stomach ache. Whether or not she was given medications for that was not disclosed. Just when it was too late a doctor
came to see how things were with her and discovered she needed blood after the surgery but was not given any. He got alarmed and frantically looked for blood. If a particular task should take 2 minutes in private hospital, in a government hospital it takes an hour at least.
So sorting the blood out from the blood bank, getting it to
the right temperature for transfusion took way too long. On the day of Arfa I lost
my sister, mostly due to negligence from the so-called trained personnel of a
teaching hospital. Incompetence of a few caused us the life of a wife,
daughter, sister, lecturer and mother to a 3 year old and new born twins.
Three days after her demise, one of the twins who had been sick since
birth also passed on and was buried next to his mother (Allahu Yarhamuk). The
other twin was named Arfa after the day he was born and the day he lost the most
important person in his life. Was this also due to their negligence? Only Allah
knows.
I guess this is closer for me, I didn’t really mourn my
sister I had to be stronger as so many trials happened around the same time
(story for another day).
I beg you in His name recite QulhuwaLLahu ahad three times for
my sweet sister's soul for she was the sweetest in every sense of the word. May Allah
have mercy on the souls of those we have lost, may they be admitted to the
highest level of Janna.
Like, share and comment. Please share your experiences with
our healthcare system I would like to know thank you.
WITH LOVE, MARIYA.
This touch my heart sister
ReplyDeletethank you.
DeleteMay Allah grant the demise eternal repose.
DeleteYa Rabb, this is so touching my dear sis. may the gentle soul of sadiya and all muslims rest in peace may Allah forgive them, light they graves and make it comfortable for them Amin ya Rabb. May Allah guide the kids she left behind on the Right path .
DeleteAllahumma amen. Jazakallahu khair for reaching out.
DeleteAllah Ya ji qan ta, Allah Ya gafarta mata Ya sa Aljannah Firdausi makomar ta. Allah Ya kyautata makwancin ta shi kuma Allah Ya sa mai ceto ne. Allah Ya raya abunda ta bari. May Allah continue to give you the fortitude to bear this great loss🤲🏽♥️
ReplyDeleteallahumma amen to your prayers jazakallahu khairan. may we be reunited with our loved ones in jannatul firdausi. amen.
DeleteAmin
DeleteAllahumma amen mun gode da adduoi jazakallahu khairan. Means a lot.
DeleteAllah ya gafarta mata
ReplyDeleteamen ya Rabbi
DeleteAllah yaji kan yaya sadiya Allah ya gafarta mata
ReplyDeleteAllah ya raya abinda ta bari
Ameen
Deleteamen ya Rabbi jazakallahu khairan dear.
DeleteAmen ya Rabbi my darling. Jazakallahu khairan
DeleteMay Almighty Allah have mercy on the soul of Sadiya. Allah yasa kina aljanna madaukakiya. Amin
ReplyDeleteAmen ya Rabbi. Jazakallahu khairan.
DeleteIndeed it was a sad one , I can remember making my daughter’s hair in preparation for Eid wen I got d news of sadiya’s demise, Inna lillahi wa Inna ilaihirrajiun,Sadiya Allah ya jikanki,Allah ya rahama miki 🥹
ReplyDeleteAllahumma amen anti fadila. Jazakallahu khairan.
DeleteAllah ya gafartawa Sadiya yasa ta huta. Allah yasa aljanna ce makomarsu damu baki daya. Indeed we lost a sister
ReplyDeleteTruly, but Allah knows best. Amen ya Rabbi jazakallahu khairan.
DeleteAllah ya jikan Sadiya ya gafarta mata, I still miss her every day.
ReplyDeleteMe and you both. May Allah give us the strength to bear the loss and pray for her. Jazakallahu khairan.
DeleteAllah ya jikanta yayi mata rahma
ReplyDeleteAmin
Allah ya kyautata namu zuwan
Amen ya Hayyu ya qayyum
DeleteAllahu Akbar Ubangiji Allah yasa Aljanna Firdaus ce makomar ta. Allah Ubangiji ya Albarkaci abin da ta bari. May Almighty Allah gives the family the fortitude to bear the loss. Mu kuma Allah Ubangiji yasa mu cika da imanin sa.
ReplyDeleteAllahumma amen da adduoi jazakallahu khairan.
DeleteAllah ya gafarta mata. Amin
ReplyDeleteAmen ya Rabbi
DeleteOh Rabbi, may Allah grant her jannatul firdaus. Allah Yakai haske kabarinta, talking about it is also therapeutic & a way to heal for you.
ReplyDeleteTrue, but it's not as easy as I thought. But we're getting there in Sha Allah. Amen and jazakallahu khair.
DeleteAllah ya mata rahma,Ya sa mutuwa hutu ne a gareta…Allah ya dayyaba abinda ta bari
ReplyDeleteAllahumma Amen m jazakallahu khairan.
DeleteYa Allah ya jikanta ya gafarta mata. Allah ya raya mana arfa
ReplyDeleteAllahu Akbar, This is heart breaking, we loss alot Almost every Due to Negligence from some Doctors, Allah ya jikanta yasa ta huta, Allah Ubangiji ya Abarkachi dan da ta bari yasa wadda ta rasa mai cheton ta neh ranan Alkiyama
ReplyDeleteamen ya Allah darling. jazakallahu khair.
DeleteMay Allah's mercy continue to be with you Sadiya Ado Zakari. You're loved and missed
ReplyDeletemost definately, allahumma amen. jazakallahu khairan
DeleteMay Allah subhanahu wata’alah have mercy on her .And sorry for the lost 😞
ReplyDeleteAmeen ya Allah
DeleteAmen ya Rabbi. Thank you and jazakallahu khairan.
DeleteAllah ya ji kan Sadiya yayi mata rahma.
ReplyDeleteamen ya Rabbi. jazakallahu khairan
DeleteAllah yaji kan Ya Sadiya ya gafarta ya haskaka kabarinta ya albarkaci zuri'anta.
ReplyDeleteAllahumma amen anti Fati. Jazakallahu khairan.
DeleteAllah ya gafarta mata yasa ta huta... and may Allah make it easy on you for it was indeed a really sudden and sad demise 💜
ReplyDeleteAmen ya Rabbi Babe jazakallahu khairan.
DeleteYa Rabbi ka gafarta ma yaya sadiya, ka ji kanta, Wanda ya bita yasa Mai ceto ne ya kuma raya Mata amrah fa arfaa Amin ya Rabbi🙏
ReplyDeleteAmen ya Allah mylove. Jazakallahu khairan.
DeleteMay Allah forgive n grant her jannatul firdaus n give u n d family fortitude to bear d loss
ReplyDeleteAllahumma amen. Jazakallahu khairan thank you.
DeleteAllah ya mata rahama, Allah ya yafe mata.
ReplyDeleteAmen ya Rabbi Baffa. Jazakallahu Khairan.
DeleteAllah Ya mata Raham Ya sa ta huta, Allah ya raya mata Yayan ta, Ya sa wanda ya bita ya zama mai ceto .
ReplyDeleteAllahumma amen ya Hayyu ya Qayyum. Jazakallahu khairan.
DeleteAllah ya jikan ya Sadia,ya mata rahama ya raya Mata yaranta amin
ReplyDeleteThank you dear jazakallahu khairan.
DeleteMay Allah (SWT) continue to lighten their grave ... Ameen
ReplyDeleteAmen ya Rahman. Jazakallahu khairan.
DeleteAllahu Akbar Allah yayi mata Rahma yasa ta huta
ReplyDeleteAmen ya Allah jazakallahu khairan.
DeleteAllah ya mata rahama yasa ta huta
ReplyDeleteAmen ya Rabbi. Jazakallahu khairan.
DeleteSalam, tun jiya naga wannan post din amma na kasa budewa don na san zai fama mun ciwon da na ke qoqarin kawar wa. Ina karanta shi a yanzu ina kuka kuma ina comment ina kuka😭 Allah ya jaddada rahama a qabarin ta da sauran musulmi baki daya. Sadiya mutuniyar kirki ce Allah yasa takwarar ta tayi halin ta, 🤲
ReplyDeleteWa alaikumussalam. Allahumma amen. Allah ya Kara mana hakuri da dangana mu kuma. Jazakallahu khairan. Thank you so much for this. Amen.
ReplyDeleteMay the Almighty Allah make it so easy for her while she's lying down there all alone ,and make it easy for us as well before ours reaches us,Allah jikanta da rahma, 🤲
ReplyDeleteAllahumma amen my darling. Jazakallahu khairan.
ReplyDeleteMay her soul rest in perfect peace, she called me some months before her death to process her academic transcript in UDUS.
ReplyDeleteAllahu akbar she was not to live to even collect it. Allahumma amen. Jazakallahu khair for reaching out.
ReplyDeleteAllah ya ji Kan Yaya Sadiya ya gararta mata ya sa halin ta na gari ya bi ta,kuma ya Raya abun da ta bari.
ReplyDeleteAllahumma amen jazakallahu khairan fam.
DeleteInnalilLahi wa inna ilaiHi raji'un. That's how we lost a loving daughter. May Allah rectify our ways in this country. We take so many things for granted. A lot of us do not do what should be done and then blame the government or those in authority. We should remember we are answerable to Allah for our actions for whatever is entrusted to us. We are still hurt and this will last to the day we meet Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala our Maker. In shaa Allah we shall meet in Jannatul Firdous where we will never be separeted. May Allah forgive our shortcomings and accept us in His highest abode. Aameen..Aameen.
ReplyDeleteAmen ya Hayyu ya Qayyum. True on blaming the government it's easier to someone else than ourselves. May we all be able to do better.
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