POV 1: She has the most wonderful relationship with her husband. Her biggest challenge is the sister in laws who try to convince their mother that the poor lady is the enemy who is pulling their brother away from the family. They convince the mother to see how the wife has succeeded in bewitching him to give them less of his time and to just care less for their financial needs (not minding they would want their own husbands to be that attentive to them as wives).
POV 2: “this my boss she too dey wicked, shey na because she
be woman she no even wan go marry she just dey old for there. I sure say this
position wey she get na through sleeping around she come get am”
POV 3: “collaborate wetin? with my competition? God forbid
bad thing! If I collaborate with her I am not my mother’s daughter. This girl
that came into the business just yesterday and is trying to chase me out. Is it
not the same girl I said has taken over all my clients.
POV 4: It is that stupid girl that is hell bent on marrying
my husband, I just got off the phone with her I insulted her but the idiot has
the audacity to return the favor. Let her just come to the house as his wife, I
will never let her have peace of mind. Mark my words! (not minding the husband
who brought the poor girl into the equation).
POV 5: haa this my friend has worn the same Ankara she wore
to the wedding we attended last two months, even the bag is not the original
Prada. Abi looking good and classy for my parents wedding anniversary party is
too much to ask of a friend again. Na wa oo!
Surprisingly, the gender responsible to nurture and grow love and affection in children is the same gender finding it difficult to do that among themselves. It is disappointing that we the ladies are the biggest enemies of the ladies. forgetting we are a team and not in competition with each other.
A big thumbs up to the guys who came up with the bro code and are living by it! Ladies we need to do more work there; the boys have been
winning there for a while now.
Has any of this scenarios happened to you before? How did you handle it? What are some ways you think we can relate better? Share with us some ways we can work on that, we cannot be
each other’s problem, it’s not just right.
Love loads,
Mariya.
True talk my dear! And it is very unfortunate! How I wish we could stand by each other! The world would have been a much better place
ReplyDeletehonestly a most unfortunate thing. we can be unstoppable if only we knew.
ReplyDeleteCiwon ya mace....
ReplyDeleteIf only women think big. May Allah (SWA) make things easier for us all. Ameen
Deletena 'ay mace ne ba. this days ai its just karin magana sef
DeleteMay Allah permit us to do d right things in life.actually true talk.
ReplyDeleteamen ya Rabbi
DeleteIt's funny, how I can relate with all of these wlh. As wine we need to do better to help ourselves. There's no way for us to grow when all we do is push each other down.
ReplyDeleteexactly, not alot of us want to see it that way sadly.
Deletein real time how can we work on it, how can we be less selfish as women towards other women?
DeleteWomen aren’t each other’s keepers
ReplyDeletesad but true, how do you think we can be eachother's keepers my dear?
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